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Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Equal Rights Under the Law

I tried to be silent on this issue, but people wont let me rest; so as your resident gay, Im gonna answer this inboxed question for the group...

Here are my thoughts on the Civil Rights issue (yes I said Civil rights) that is currently being argued before the Supreme Court: 

1.  This is America, where we all have the right to Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness; all means all, not just Christian Anglo-Saxons.

2.  People love to point to the Bible and say that God invented marriage.  Please show me the scripture where God defines marriage; go ahead, Ill wait...God didnt define marriage, people defined marriage; God honors the commitment.  Besides, initially, God's chosen people were polygamous; I wonder if God ordained that.

3.  This is a Civil Rights issue because I am clearly being discriminated against purely because Im a woman who loves a woman.  She should have the right to be by my side in my weakest moments, should I be hospitalized, and she should have the right to inherit any assets I leave behind should I die...that fact that she doesnt is totally ridiculous!!! 

4.  Being Black and being Gay arent the same thing; however as a Black Lesbian, I can honestly say that I have been discriminated against far more for being Gay than I have for being Black.  While I didnt grow up in a time where I was barred from places for my skin color, I do live in a time where I am looked at like I just landed from outer space, like I dont belong, like Im an abomination, every time I make an appearance in a Ladies room or a church; Im not saying the two are the same, but they are damn sure related. 

5.  People feel my sons are permanently being scarred because they are being raised by two women.  I happen to feel that my sons are some of the most well adjusted, well mannered, intelligent, articulate, young black men on the planet.  I know for a fact that no one can teach them more about how to love a woman than me; disagree, leave your lady with me for 2 minutes...

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